People value their first-time most for whatever it is—first time they learn to walk, first school, first job, first love, first kiss, first marriage, and any other first tries. It seems the most memorable although it may not be the best of all if they have the second and third time. What makes a first-time so valuable?
Without previous experience, you are so eager to get one. You may dream day and night of getting it. When it does come, you feel that your dream has come true. What is special in a first-time is that it will build a foundation for you to compare with the next chance if you will have it again. People like to compare things and people. They want to know if they have a better experience or a worse one, and they also wish to know if they have made the right decision from one experience to the next one.
A first-time can end with either happiness and satisfaction or sadness and hopelessness. On one hand, once a first-time ends with good outcome, a second try will normally be wished for which however may depend. On the other hand, most people abandon their try and give themselves away after a certain failure, small or big.
There are many first-times for me in this year of 2011 which is the turning point of my life. Most of them are pleasant, and I wish I will always have pleasant first-times that end with happiness and satisfaction throughout my life.
3 comments:
Most people want the success for the first time. If you can have it, then you're called "Lucky girl". I believe you will have it in a simple way.
Thx, I hope so. There is sth that first-time is absolutely important, but there is also sth else that a few tries will make it more meaningful and colorful.
wish more good things pour in your life include those so-called first time's!
i don't know how many first times contain in one's live, but the next times of each category of the first time, is sometimes better or worse!
just care for the current visible first time, or wait for the incoming and invisible next time, is hard to judge.
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