To Be Alone: Who Like It?

I’m afraid of being alone, especially at night. The reason one can think of is that I’m afraid of ghosts or any evil spirits. But it’s not the case. Although I’ve never seen a ghost until now, admittedly, I’d not be happy or willing to have such an experience. What frightens me then? I would say I’m more scared of human beings that of ghosts. Human beings are even harsh and frightening nowadays. Crimes ranging from theft to murder are increasing from day to day although people are governed by rules of law and morality. People need companions as many as possible to reduce the risk of being targeted. Within only one year (2010), I was a victim of theft and robbery twice, but luckily I didn’t lose much. When can we have a safe and secure society?


I hate to be alone—perhaps it’s just my personality or other people may share. I always need someone to talk to or at least someone to write to. People may find me ‘enjoy’ sitting alone, but I am not really ‘enjoying’. I feel like talking to people, but sometimes I dare not because I may bore or offend them in some ways since my communication skill is not very good. When I’m sad or happy, I want to express the feeling out so I’ll feel relieved or my pleasure will be doubled. No matter how the drama is inviting, how the game is exciting, how food is delicious, if it’s not shared with other people, I don’t have real excitement. No one can avoid being alone sometimes.

I don’t want to be alone. I have tried to improve my communication skill and sense of humor. I try to listen to people’s conversation and engage in them whenever I feel appropriate to. I try to make new friends and go out with friends more than I have ever done. Sometimes I go to school late simply because I don’t want to stay in the class alone waiting for the classmates and friends.

I am not alone. I have my family who are the first to share my achievements, delight, and sadness. I also have my closed friends to share the depth of my thoughts and feelings.

Please do not wish to be alone! No matter how intelligent or outstanding you are, you need someone to be with to feel secure, to be successful, and to make everything meaningful.