In fact it's hard to identify which feeling is right and which is wrong. You might be able to tell people around you who you like. However, reality may not be so. Perhaps you don't want to reveal all of your inner feelings due to shyness and shame or perhaps you yourself don't know exactly who you really love and are happy to be with at all times.
You may keep telling yourself that he is the one you love and try to follow his every step for whatever he does, whatever he says, wherever he goes, etc. Once you are rejected, you feel lost and shameful because you are not the one he chooses. You may feel down in the dump closing yourself away from everyone even from thoses who really care for you. I love an idea from a friend, 'You should not give 100% of your love to him/her because you will simply lose yourself when s/he leaves you. Love him/her 80% and love yourself the remaining.'
Love is not everything--once you lose one, you can find a new one, but make sure you are not a two-timer. I hate this bullshit people!
To love is to have the loved one happy but not to try to own him/her. It's easy to say so, but I hope I can do it. However, once I do it, I doubt if I have loved him.
Who is your Mr. RIGHT?
He is not the one who matches your materialistic requirements;
He is not the one who has good looking appearance;
He is not the one who knows how to use sweet words;
He is not the one who can do everything;
He is not the one who cares for you most;
He is not the one who loves you;
But....
He must be someone who has mutual feeling with you. Without saying a word, he knows what you feels and can make you happy most of the times when you are with him and vice versa. Remember, MUTUAL FEELINGS matter most!
6 comments:
I think "Love" is a hot topic recently. :D
Anyway, if you say "love" to s1, ask urself if it comes from ur heart or just from ur mouth. What I know is the human heart can speak a language with no sound!
If the heart could answer, we would not have made a wrong decision.
You're good. I believe and hope u can find someone u don't confuse and have true feeling with.
not sure when though...
Love is something which not clear when we start to think about it. Even though have or have no experience with it, but it still makes people confuse about it. I do not know much about love and also do not really want to think about it. However, some times also think about it and have no idea. To your article, I wishes found someone you do not confuse and have true love with each other.
Thanks Lak! I believe I will be able to find the one I have mutual feelings with and who understands me. Love is easy to start but difficult to maintain. If wrongly maintained, love will become hate and we will suffer.
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